Well, here I am. Sitting in a comfy chair at good ‘ole Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary (or swibitz as we call it). I got out of my 2:25 class (at 3:40) and it’s just not worth driving home in all the traffic to only get to be there long enough to upset the girls that I have to leave again to be back here at the school by 6. So, here I sit. In a comfy chair at good ‘ole swibitz.
But this gives me time to just sit and reflect on life as it stands at this moment. Life has a tendency to get put into fast foward sometimes. That’s how it seems right now for me. I haven’t seen my wife for any length of measurable time since January, or so it seems. Let’s go through a typical week in the lives of the Vaughn’s. Monday mornings Rennee gets home from work around 7:30am. I, by then, should have the kids ready to go to school and the sitters. She get’s home, I get in the car with the kids, drop them off at the sitters and head to work. Rennee goes to bed and sleeps until about 2:30 or 3. She then gets up, gets dressed, goes and gets the kids from the sitters, goes and gets Bryce from school and then takes the 4 kids to Bryce and Kyla’s swimming lessons. I then meet them back at home around 5:30 (remember, we’re only on Monday here). We have dinner together and we then begin our evening twin ritual of feeding, bathing, and puttting the kids to sleep. By that time we are exhausted and we go to bed… having said maybe 10 words to each other during all this (the kids are telling us all about their day, we’re fighting with the kids, etc). Then I wake up around 5:30 am on Tuesday, go to school until 4, get home around 4:30-ish, while Rennee has had the kids all day at home. I then get home and do homework… if I feel like it. We then start our evening twin ritual all over again. Bed. Sleep. Up at 7 on Wednesdays, I go to work at 8, and don’t get home until around 9 or 9:30 that night (we have internship class that night at church). By the time I get home Ren has had it up to her eyeballs with screaming kids (she had swimming lessons again this day) so she goes to bed (the kids are usually asleep by that time). Bed. Sleep. I wake up around 5:30 to go to school… repeat Tuesday schedule. Friday is work, I come home, we have our small group that night, so we go to the Brazilians house (or they come to ours… which adds an additional stress to Rennee. 4 kids = dirty house). We get home and go to bed. Saturday is house-cleaning day. So we do all our laundry, dusting, vacuuming, etc. Rennee takes an afternoon nap, we eat dinner and she heads off to work for the weekend. We won’t see her again until Monday afternoon where we start all over again.
Now, in the meantime, I’m taking 12 hours at school (4 classes: Biblical Interpretation, Old Testament Focus Study, New Testament Focus Study, and Church and Empires). I’m also being the administrator for Glocalnet (network of church-planting-churches) where I just do whatever they need me to do… which is growing daily. I love my job which makes it harder for school.
Next week I fly to Orlando for Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday. I then fly out to Reno for another conference on Thursday and Friday. Saturday is my berfday. This will be the first birthday I’ve spent with my parents in 5 or 6 years. Pray for me next week. Pray for my Pastor, Bob Roberts, Jr. He’s speaking at this conference and has several meetings while he’s there.